February 12, 2021
Good afternoon, my dear readers, how are you? Today I would like to continue sharing with you my opinion about the archipelago. I want to say thank you for reading my previous articles, your feedback and sharing. In my first part of this article I have written about Filipino mentality, in the second part I shared about the Filipino family and traditions.
In this part of article I am going to share about Filipino women and not traditional couples. I want to accentuate your attention at that fact that everything, what I will write in my article, is only my point of view. You can disagree with me, but I will be glad to see your comments about my work and your own experiences. So if you are interested, please sit back, prepare a cup of aromatic coffee or hot tea and let’s start.
The Philippines is very colorful and contrast country and I am happy that I can see here a lots of beautiful women. This is my first Asian country where I have pleasure to watch different people unlike South Korea and China.
In Korea I have seen the artificial beauty, this is not secret how Koreans like making the plastic surgery and not only girls, boys also, sometimes I couldn’t believe in that, watching the photos before and after the surgery.
Everywhere I was surrounded by typical standard of beauty, thinking inside my mind «where is natural beauty? Where is individuality?». In China was same situation with not only the plastic surgery but also with some tricks how to change your face’s shape, make the eyes bigger and the nose thinner with special devices. Believe me, the performance of changing is not for human with weak nervous.
And how I was glad to see Filipino beauties, a lot of them have mix origin – Chinese, European, Slavic, Italian and etc, thanks to this, such a variety of appearance appeared here. Also I like that Filipino women smile every time, even they have some troubles, and how you know – «The smile is the best decoration for a woman», it makes them more charming. Moreover, Filipino women are considered the best wife in the world and many foreign people arrive to the Philippines to find the bride for themselves, and Filipino women also want to bound their life with foreigners.
I nothing know about Filipino woman like wife but I know what mother they can be. They grows their children with love and understanding, always care about them and sometimes, watching how my friend is busy with her baby, I am jealous her patience, she is my hero because in Russia not everyone can overcome with baby crying and give herself to the child.
If you get the shock, seeing the not traditional couples, I have to disappoint you – the Philippines is not your country because they are everywhere. Sometimes, when my friends and I go out, I watch some very amazing girl and when I pay my friend’s attention to her, they always laugh and broke my idea about her by words «this is boy». How like this?
But if you take a closer look you will see the difference. My good friends are girl’s couple and they can speak about it and behave themselves free, unafraid of judgment from any side. Also when I go to drink coffee, I can sit nearby boy’s couple and for me this is good. I want to say that I admire such people, they don’t scare to express themselves to this world, don’t hide anything and they found their mission unlike many people with traditional sexual orientation. And this is awesome!
Unfortunately, for some nationalities it can be unpleasant and incomprehensible but our world is huge and everyone has rights at his own vision of life, what you think is wrong in your own country may be the norm in another. And also I would like to add that usually they look very amazingly, sometimes watching at boy’s couple I am pleasantly surprised at their femininity and softness. Not every woman is capable of this. But what makes me happier is tolerance of others. In the Philippines nobody will broke up the friendship with you if you are going to tell your friends that you have not traditional sexual orientation. Even parents, they just accept your choice.
But also have some exceptions when parents denied from their own children, when they knew about the situation and it is extremely not fair. However, this is my own opinion, maybe you think another way. In Russia this topic is prohibited by government, we also have such couples but they can’t show themselves because it is very dangerous for them. Just I want to add from myself – these people are pleasant, understanding and can become your true friend. If you see such people in your country, please do not rush to judge, humiliate or insult them. These are people with their firm stance in life, who have long realized who they really are and who they want to become, and you will not break this confidence in them with your judgments or insults. Better look at yourself, start with yourself, understand what you want and who you are, only then can you accept what seems strange, wrong and scary.
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My dear friends, thank you for reading, I hope you liked my article today. I would like to see your feedback, opinions and your own notes about Filipino people. I would like to add from myself something – never stop to discover this world, it is more bigger and deeper than you can image and I hope you have already chosen your next travel destination after lockdown, welcome to exotic, tropical, tolerant country – the Philippines. Take care, keep a good mood, enjoy every your day and never stop to dream. Thank you. See you soon.